Volume. XXXVIII, No. 63 Biblical Principles for Good Time Management (Part 3) Time Wasters
The first step is a critical appraisal of how one spends one's time (Psa 90:12) and to question some of our habits. In one's time log, identify periods of time which might have been better used.
There are various sources of waste. The most common are social: telephone calls, short message service, friends dropping by casually, excessive sleep, conversations with others, TV, video games, use of computer for games and chatrooms, dreaming or just aimless loafing. Look to the ant as our example, a tiny creature but an industrious and judicious one as well (Prov 6:6-11). The pig on the other hand is the negative example. It must be a conscious and deliberate effort to stop these aimless activities and choose rather to do things that have a more definite purpose and of lasting value.
Another common source of waste stems from delaying work which is unpleasant by finding distractions which are less important or unproductive. Check your day or week log to see if there are any tasks that are being delayed simply because they are dull or difficult.
Procrastination is a major stumbling block to good usage of time. Beware of delays that rob us of previous time and prevent us from getting the work done on time.
There are two major causes of procrastination. The first major category is Avoidance. We procrastinate to avoid overwhelming tasks, difficult tasks, and unpleasant tasks and to avoid change. The second category is Fear and Anxiety. We procrastinate because of our fear of failure, fear of success, fear of criticism, fear of making mistakes and fear of rejection.
Some students are infamous for delaying and hence submitting their assignments late (or never at all). Be disciplined and keep consistent work done throughout the semester.
If we keep in mind that procrastination is only a habit, and habits can be changed, we can find some hope for changing how we respond to different situations by God's grace and enablement (Phil 4:19) and change our habits for the better.
Conclusion
There will be spiritual concerns for the believer particularly with regard to the work of the Lord in the church and the spiritual well being of family and friends. Long-term objectives have the characteristics of being important but not urgent; they may not have deadlines, they are distant and remote. For this reason, it is easy to ignore them in favour of the urgent and immediate. Clearly a balance must be struck and a certain weightage given to them. Begin well and, have the endurance and stamina to also complete it (Heb 12:1,2). Spending quality time with your spouse or loved ones is equally important.
A balanced use of time for all commitments self-imposed through the use of the PDA (Personal Digital Assistant) or diary is helpful. For example, a Christian might decide that one hour a week should be devoted to personal or church issues and would then allocate a regular block of time to spiritual or secular activity (i.e. family worship or a prayer meeting or leisure time with children).
Use godly prudence and spiritual wisdom (Prov 9:10, Jas 1:5) to augment one's own spiritual life, work and family commitments. It may mean the need to take some quiet weekend, to pray and seek the Lord first and plan judiciously in advance.
Exercise
We have one final summary exercise. It is a test. There are only 25 questions; that means you would grade each question with a weight of 4 on a scale of 100. Hope that you will find the checklist useful.
Maybe it is time for a reality check and an audit of our lives. Let us order it aright for God, walking wisely, redeeming the time for the days are evil.
Final Thoughts
Good Time Management is more than a systematic application of common sense strategies. It requires spiritual discipline, God honouring directions and human responsibility. It helps us to understand the importance of the use of time in the right perspective and it leads to effective employment of time by focusing on the right things to do. It reveals our priorities and other practical concerns in the life of the believers. It enables us to be responsible and take control of precious limited time that God has given to us. Use it wisely for the Lord. Remember we cannot kill time without injuring eternity.
By Rev Jack Sin Sovereign Hope BPC Church, Singapore |
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